Children are naturally curious. When they feel secure, they want to head out into the world to play, learn, and grow. At this stage, your job is to: Let them know you're there.
The most liberating part of this approach? You don't have to get it right 100% of the time. Secure attachment is built through . When you lose your cool or miss a cue, simply acknowledging it and reconnecting with your child actually strengthens your bond. Raising a Secure Child: How Circle of Security ...
Show them you're proud of their discoveries. Children are naturally curious
Offer just enough support so they can succeed on their own. 2. The "Bottom" of the Circle: Welcome Their Return The most liberating part of this approach
Remind them they are loved just for being who they are. 3. Being "Hands-On"
You aren't alone. Attachment research shows that children need two things to thrive: a to head out from and a Secure Haven to return to. This is the heart of the Circle of Security . 1. The "Top" of the Circle: Support Their Exploration
The goal of Circle of Security isn't to prevent your child from feeling upset. It’s about being —being bigger, stronger, wiser, and kind. Whenever possible, follow your child’s lead; whenever necessary, take charge. The Takeaway: It’s About Connection, Not Perfection