Attachment, Play, And Authenticity: A Winnicott... -

This is a defensive mask. It develops when a child has to constantly adapt to the needs or moods of a caregiver. While it helps us navigate social rules (politeness, professionalism), an overdeveloped False Self leads to a feeling of unreality or "going through the motions." The Takeaway

When a parent looks at a baby with joy, the baby sees themselves reflected as something valuable. This secure attachment gives the child the "courage to be." 2. The Power of Play Attachment, Play, and Authenticity: A Winnicott...

Authenticity is a byproduct of feeling safe. When we have a secure "holding" (Attachment) and the freedom to experiment (Play), we no longer need to hide behind a mask. We become "real" to ourselves and others. This is a defensive mask

Play is not just a childhood pastime; it is the laboratory of the soul. This secure attachment gives the child the "courage to be

For Winnicott, authenticity starts with a (or caregiver).